Colombian Women. First Date. Tips
If you fell in love with the country or just the ladies here are some tips on how to date a Colombian woman.
Ok, but earlier getting info, what do you wish in a Colombian woman?
Tip #1. Learn Spanish.
You will have an advantage if you learn some Spanish – but with note…
Tip #1A. Maybe…don’t learn Spanish.
The best dates with Colombian women who spoke no English. The best advice I can give is to simply be wary of Colombian women that do speak English, as there’s a decent chance they’re just meeting you to have a free drink and practice their English.
Tip #2: Determine What You Want in Your Communication
And this principle is typical previously you start any love affair. If you got over your first one you should not recognise not to choice a lady based just on her looks and femininity.
Leave it for casual dates. If you wish to build a love affair with a real lady, and possibly a family, focus your attention on her nature and background story.
Femininity and Hot Nature?
If a hot latin lady is your main desire in dating Colombian woman, do not necessarily fool over with building up the perfect family. Sure, at first glance Colombian women are all hot and you can snatch one where it is both the smart, compassionate and sexy, but once “hot” is often your cream of the crop objective I guarantee yourself will end up with the yellow metal digger that will solely bite your ear at a Credit to America or The european union and demand that a credit card to stay “fun.”
You will easy find the sexy latin on different online dating web-websites and by the bikini photos and sexy body you cant tell what kind of lady she is.
Is It the Latin woman beautiful?
I must to say that most foreigners man are charmed by the nature of the Colombian women. I only know about Brazilian lady to be even more beautiful and open to the foreigners. I have not travel too much to write here that women from other cultures are not hot and dismissive, I do not think that it is true.
But there is some beauty and grace to people in tropical nations. The way Latins dance, that mix of cultures between the Spanish flamenco, the tribal Africa and natives simplicity has a “I Do not know what” that makes you desire them… until they get mad.
If the charm you make sure to look under the appearances. Colombian women are charismatic experts and a gold digger can easily hide her true intentions. It all depends were you look for your date mostly.
Webcam and dating websites?? Hmmm. I would say most are opportunistic, but not all. My ladyfriend came from a dating website and my beloved lady is the good mother and business woman. But you can tell that if she asks constantly for money, a Visa payment card and flaunts you in the process she is after no good. But if you can maintain a nice conversation on topics of interest, she is working or studying to progress on her own then that is someone worth dating. For me these are the true beauties.
So to sum it up just decide if you want a loving partner to build a life with or just a casual interaction and be smart whichever you choose.
Tip #3. You Better Learn How to Dance!
Oh yes! This is way at the top of the list if you want to impress any Colombian woman.
As a Colombian, I am a terrible dancer. If you do not learn to Salsa in your youth, learning it as an adult is a pain.
But no worries, you do not need to be the floor master. Just learn the basic steps and try to follow the rhythm of the songs. Focus on the drums for pace and just keep her tight to your body. We Latinos dance very, very attached, and this is why dancing is key in the seduction game.
Hey, and Do not think they will judge by how good or bad you dance, they care mostly on the attitude you display. You might not even know how the steps go and it wouldn´t matter as long as you move her around and make an enjoyable time or both. Foreigners are not expected to know how to dance fluidly so there is no judging…but lots of smiling and giggling and this will make you look cute and funny. Ahhh, something to your advantage.
And no sitting!! Nothing turns down a woman more than sitting on the table drinking all night. Personality is what most woman want… heck! That is what they all secretly are seduced to. Dancing terribly is better that not dancing at all.
Colombian woman dancing salsa, and she burns!
Tip #4. Keep Talking to the Minimum on the Dance Floor Please
The music is loud so Do not go with expectations to talk about your hobbies and super job. Keep the chit chat to the basic “Ueepa!” “You are muy bonita” and short flirty lines. The club is a body language place, so leave the talking for the morning coffee. Salsa dancing in the streets of Cali
Tip #5. Drink Aguardiente but Not Too Much
Aguardiente is like Colombia´s national drink. It is literally means “hot water” and I Do not know its other English names, but its basically alcohol from sugar cane. It’s very basic alcohol and extremely strong, both of flavor and drunkenness. We drink it in tiny glass shots and do not even taste it as it doesn´t taste good. It’s like drinking antiseptic alcohol. Foreigners do not get it. But drink more than three and there is no beverage in the world that will make you smile more. The odd flavor won´t even bother you after it.
If she drinks aguardiente, which is normal, try to do so as well. This means she is a fun lady. But watch it, if you are not accustomed to strong drinks you might end up outside of the club sitting on the corner trying to throw up. Even if it doesn´t get to this, the headache the next morning will be horrible. This doesn´t happen with vodka or even tequila.
So drink aguardiente but make sure to space out your shots in long terms, especially by the end of the evening. And dance a lot to wear down the drunkenness. Do not stay still or it will be the worst. Drink lots of water after every shot because you will be dehydrated by the end of the evening and eat something before bed. It helps a lot.
Tip #6. Say Nice Things About Her Personality and Beauty
Latins will appreciate any nice comment about her as long as you have proven yourself as a nice and enjoyable person. If she smiles with both lips and mouth, she is yours. Just do not overdo it and no rushing.
Colombian ladys can be hard to understand. Sometimes they seem to dress to incite and they are very sensual in their gestures. Compared to other cultures, physical contact is very normal and they might stay close to you. But do not interpret this as in invitation to bed them, try it and you will ruin everything.
It is a game of give and let go that they play, they might even kiss you on the first night out but forbid any more advances and can even be more cold the next day. They are like that. They want to be chased.
Tip #7 Appreciate the culture of Colombian women.
They’re proud of it. Don’t throw it under the bus or make fun of it. I made this mistake once and had to recover.
Tip #8 Colombian women have a silly sense of humor.
Masculine Profiles warned me about this before the trip, and he was dead right.
The girls will laugh at anything. You’ll feel like a famous comedian at times.
Don’t hesitate to make fun of yourself or your poor Spanish. I called myself a fat gringo all the time and girls just lapped it up.
Tip #9 Be prepared for them to fall in love.
My Colombian girlfriend was saying she loved me after three dates. I don’t think it means quite as much as it does here in America, but there’s definitely something to it. After two dates she was telling me she didn’t want me to go out to be with other girls.
The trick is to handle accordingly. There are lots of articles around here that discuss keeping a girl around whilst still fucking around.
Tip #10 Colombians Are Hard Core About Hygiene!
We just do not understand why Europeans would not shower any given day. We shower every day and most people shower twice a day. We have keen noses and we can tell if you showered.
This is very important. Ladys notice shoes first, I Do not know why, but they do. Have them clean and proper.
Tip 11. Not Everything Is Perfect.
Be Prepared to Face the Most Jealous Women in the World